You’ve spotted a girl who makes your heart race, but now you’re wondering, what does she notice about you first? Is it your shoes? Your hair? That awkward way you try to look cool but end up tripping over your own feet? (We’ve all been there.)
The truth is, first impressions matter. And the good news? You don’t have to be a billionaire, a supermodel, or a TikTok star to impress her. Just focus on these 10 things girls always notice first, and how to make sure you pass the test with flying colors.
1. Your Smile
A genuine smile is like a cheat code for attraction. It makes you look confident, friendly, and approachable. No need to flash a Hollywood grin 24/7, just don’t be the guy who always looks like he lost his wallet.
How to Impress: Keep your teeth clean (yes, flossing matters), and practice smiling naturally in the mirror. Confidence starts with looking happy to be alive!
2. Your Eyes (And If You Actually Make Eye Contact)
Girls love guys who can hold eye contact, without making it creepy. It shows confidence, interest, and that you’re not just waiting for your turn to talk.
How to Impress: Hold eye contact for about 3-5 seconds, then glance away. If she holds it back, congrats, she’s interested! (Just don’t stare like a horror movie villain.)
3. Your Scent (Yes, You Smell)
Nothing turns a girl off faster than a guy who smells like a middle school locker room. A good scent, on the other hand, can make you instantly more attractive.
How to Impress: Find a signature scent. Keep it fresh and subtle, don’t bathe in cologne. And for the love of all things attractive, shower daily.
4. Your Hair
Messy, greasy, or unkempt hair screams, “I don’t care about myself.” A well-groomed hairstyle shows effort, and effort is hot.
How to Impress: Find a style that suits your face shape, and maintain it. That means regular trims and, yes, actually using shampoo.
5. Your Shoes
Girls notice shoes way more than guys think. Dirty, worn-out sneakers say, “I put zero thought into my life.” A fresh, clean pair? That says, “I know what I’m doing.”
How to Impress: Keep your shoes clean, upgrade them when needed, and make sure they match your outfit. (No, neon green sneakers don’t go with everything.)
6. Your Posture
Slouching makes you look insecure and uninterested. Standing tall? That screams confidence.
How to Impress: Shoulders back, chin up, and walk with purpose. Bonus: It makes you look taller.
7. Your Style
You don’t need designer clothes, just a sense of what looks good. A girl will notice if you put some effort into your outfit.
How to Impress: Wear clothes that fit well, match your style, and look clean. If in doubt, simple and classic always wins.
8. Your Energy & Vibe
Ever notice how some guys just feel attractive? It’s their energy, how they carry themselves and interact with the world.
How to Impress: Be positive, be fun, and don’t take yourself too seriously. Confidence is contagious.
9. Your Voice & How You Speak
A strong, clear voice is attractive. If you mumble or speak too softly, girls might lose interest before you even finish your sentence.
How to Impress: Speak with confidence, don’t rush your words, and please have something interesting to say.
10. Your Attitude & How You Treat Others
Being kind and respectful is one of the biggest green flags. Girls pay attention to how you treat people when you don’t think they’re watching.
How to Impress: Be genuinely nice, to everyone, not just her. Trust me, she’s noticing.
Now It’s Your Turn…
Which of these things do you think you need to work on the most? Drop a comment below and let’s talk! Or, if you have your own secret tip for making an unforgettable first impression, share it with the squad.